Moving With Children

Ease young children into the idea of moving well in advance.  For toddlers and preschoolers, begin talking about the move a month in advance.  Explain moving to the young ones.  Remind them that you will speak to friends you are leaving and it’s not a goodbye forever.  Also let them know that important things (like mommy and daddy) will stay the same!

If you are moving with children, it is a given that you and they will experience a little bit of sadness.  Whether your child misses an old babysitter or friend, it’s difficult to watch them in pain.

However, part of the process is accepting the move.  Allow your child to express heartbreak and anger.  Be supportive and understanding during the transition.

Be sure to stay as positive as possible.  We know that things don’t always go completely smoothly with a move, but keeping a positive outlook will benefit your children. 

Emotions tend to rub off on other people.  During the stressful times of a move, this is especially true.  Be aware of the things you say and the way you act around your children during a relocation.

In the beginning especially, creating a schedule is very helpful for the young ones.  Try to create a schedule and stick to it!  The stability of daily routines will create a feeling of stability in your child during the turbulence of a move.

Getting to know your neighbors is a good way to ease into the transition of a move with children.  It will create a positive distraction for the kids.

Big Ernie’s New Home– A Story For Children Who Are Moving (ages 3-5)

Louis & Bobo – We Are Moving (ages 3-5)

Maybe Yes, Maybe No, Maybe Maybe (ages 6 and up)

Where I Live (ages 6 and up)

The Berenstain Bears’ Moving Day (ages 3-5)

Make sure you and your family and kids get plenty of sleep.  Stick to a routine in the morning.  Have a good healthy breakfast.  Have your children’s clothing picked out in advance.  This will make your day a little bit easier.

Guide your young one through the moving process by explaining what will happen.  Make it a happy time but let them know it’s ok however they feel.

Don’t get too caught up in yourself during the move.  Make sure that someone is with your child at all times during the moving process.

If you are moving with children, make sure all furniture and belongings are safely packed and stored.  Don’t allow young ones to play on furniture items or boxes.   This could be a hazard.

Try to keep things as upbeat as possible.  Your excitement will rub off on your children.